LOVE WINS™


A conversation card game for people who want to go deeper.

No points. No winners. Just presence & truth.

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Some conversations change everything.
Most of us just don’t know how to start them.

Love Wins™ is a conversation card game designed to help people move beyond small talk and explore meaningful topics about relationships, connection, and intimacy.

The game was created to encourage honest conversations that help people better understand themselves and the people they care about.

No points. No winners. Just presence & truth.

Choose how deep you want to go.

Core Decks

  • Light. Honest. Bonding.

    Designed to move beyond surface talk and strengthen connection through shared stories and better questions.

    Status: Printing

    *Handwritten Available*

    Includes:
    • 52 cards
    • 2–8 players
    • Ages 13+

  • Direct. Reflective. Necessary.

    Creates space for conversations that often get avoided — building clarity, understanding, and stronger family ties.

    Status: Coming Soon

    *Handwritten Available*

    Includes:
    • 52 cards
    • 2–8 players
    • Ages 13+

  • Curious. Intentional. Revealing.

    Designed for early dating or long-term partners who want to move beyond first impressions and explore real alignment.

    Status: Coming Soon

    *Handwritten Available*

    Includes:
    • 52 cards
    • 2–6 players
    • Ages 16+

  • Deeper. Sharper. Focused.

    Adds 20 advanced prompts to the TRES deck for partners ready to go further.

    Status: Coming Soon

    *Handwritten Available*

    Includes:
    • 20 cards
    • Requires TRES core deck
    • Ages 16+

  • XXX — Intimacy (18+)

    Honest. Vulnerable. Mature.

    For partners ready to explore emotional and physical intimacy — grounded in consent, trust, and clear boundaries.

    Status: Coming Soon

    *Handwritten Available*

    Includes:
    • 52 cards
    • 2–4 players
    • Ages 18+

  • Explicit. Direct. Elevated.

    Adds 20 expansion prompts to the XXX deck for couples ready for deeper vulnerability and clarity.

    Status: Coming Soon

    *Handwritten Available*

    Requires XXX core deck.

    Includes:
    • 20 expansion cards
    • 2 Love Dice
    • Ages 18+

Metal Founders Edition

Metal cards with a 3D printed collectors box. Limited runs. Built to last.

  • Timeless. Intentional. Lasting.

    The original 52 questions — reimagined in metal.
    Built to be held, kept, and returned to over time.

    Limited — 5 Available

    Metal Edition — printed on engraved cards with a 3D printed collector box

    Includes:
    • 52 metal cards
    • 2–8 players
    • Ages 13+

  • Direct. Reflective. Necessary.

    The next 52 questions — designed for the conversations that matter most at home.
    Built to hold space for honesty, repair, understanding, and growth.

    These aren’t always easy questions.
    They’re the ones that create clarity, strengthen bonds, and shift what’s possible within family.

    Made to be returned to — again and again.

    Status: Coming Soon
    Handwritten Available

    Metal Edition — printed on engraved cards with a 3D printed collector box

    Includes:
    • 52 metal cards
    • 2–8 players
    • Ages 13+

  • Nostalgic. Intimate. Intentional.

    Inspired by the mixtapes we made for the people we loved.
    This time, we listen, build… and share, together.

    Status: Limited — 5 Available

    Founders Edition — metal cards with custom 3D printed cassette case

    Includes:
    • 52 metal cards
    • 2 players (recommended)
    • Ages 18+

  • Open. Affirming. Expansive.

    Centered on identity, love, and being fully seen.
    Designed to create space for honest conversation and deeper understanding.

    Status: Available

    Includes:
    • 52 cards
    • 2–8 players
    • Ages 13+

How to Play

There’s no one way to play.

Solo Play
•Pull a card.
•Sit with it.
•Write, reflect, or say it out loud.

Group Play
•Take turns drawing.
•Answer honestly.
•Listen fully.

No pressure.
No right answers.

“Say More"

If something feels unfinished…

• Players may say: “Say more”
• If the group agrees, the speaker may go deeper

Always optional.
Always respected.

What goes under the rug must eventually come out.

The Rug Rule

Not ready? Put it under the rug.

If a card feels like too much, set it aside — no explanation required.

…It comes back before the game ends.

Depth without pressure.
Safety creates honesty.
Honesty creates connection.

What They Are Saying

"Love Wins creates a safe container to have deep conversations again. After 12 years of marriage, raising children, and our work life, we forget these things. Love Wins brought us closer together!”

“This game is utterly dangerous! Only play Love Wins with people whom you either love and trust or those you want to stop wasting time with… This will cut them out, quickly.”

*Yes, these are actual quotes from Love Wins players!

What Happens When You Play

• You hear something honest you weren’t expecting
• You say something real you’ve been carrying
• You see and understand someone differently
• You leave closer than you started

Join the Love Wins™ Circle.

Love Wins™ is more than a game.
It’s a night you don’t forget.

Join the waitlist for early access to the deck or reach out about bringing a circle to your community.

Stay in the Loop…

New decks.
Bigger conversations.
Different rooms.

If you feel it, lean in.

Every card is an invitation.

Keep The Vibes Going…

Stream the official Love Wins™ playlist for your next game night.

I began my own healing journey over a decade ago, and realized that I was tired of conversations that felt polite but shallow. Plastic.

I wanted something that made it easier to ask better questions.
To hear people clearly.
To be understood… and to understand.

Love Wins™ is about growing through conversation — intentionally,
with friends,
with family,
with partners,
with yourself.

Create some space and time to share, learn, and grow together!

Love wins the game… So shut up and talk!

— Shaymar Higgs

Why I Created Love Wins™

© 2026 Love Wins™. All rights reserved.
Love Wins™, Shut Up and Talk™, all deck names (UNO, DOS, TRES, XXX, XXX+), game mechanics including The Rug Rule™, written prompts, card content, instructional language, visual layouts, and associated materials are the intellectual property of Real Men Grow, LLC.
No part of this game, its language, mechanics, or materials may be reproduced, distributed, modified, publicly displayed, or used for commercial purposes without prior written permission from the creator.
Unauthorized use is prohibited.
This product is intended solely for voluntary conversation and connection. It is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, or medical or mental health treatment.
Use of this game constitutes acknowledgment of personal responsibility for participation, boundaries, and consent.